Lusty and bestial though they may be, satyrs tend to know a bit about the nuances of pleasure.  Raven began conducting sex ed demonstrations and lectures while a peer counselor in high school. Xe assisted in demonstrations at local conventions, was named an honorary member of the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, and wrote a sex advice column called Think Kink in xyr twenties.  In 2009-2010, xe volunteered xyr time to SWOP to support sex workers in their efforts to both decriminalize prostitution and end sex trafficking and abuse. Xyr erotic short stories and poetry have been featured in SEAF’s literary art collections three times under the pseudonym Virginia Mayfair.

“I Want to Take You in the Red Room” by Raven J. Demers

Books, Videos, and Links

[APOLOGIES: These links are not current. I am working to rectify this. 2/6/18]

Selected book and film resources on Amazon
Delicious links about sex


Reid Mihalko of Reid About Sex
Ducky Doolittle

Erotic Art

Seattle Erotic Art Festival (SEAF)
Male Submission Art

Community & Support

Sex Workers Outreach Project (SWOP)
Center for Sex Positive Culture (CSPC)

Advice & Discussion

Savage Love
Kink On Tap


Go Ask Alice
National Institute of Health (NIH)
Sexuality Information and Education Council of the U.S. (SIECUS)